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How to Find the Best Betrayal Trauma Support Group: 5 Things to Know

Wondering where to find the best betrayal trauma support group? Women share their insights and experiences.

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If you’re looking for the best betrayal trauma support group, here are five things to consider:

5 Characteristics of an Effective Betrayal Trauma Support Group

1. Can you get support quickly? And often?

At Betrayal Trauma Recovery, we’ve all been through betrayal trauma and know how important it is to get the right support, right when you need it.

That’s why Betrayal Trauma Support Group Sessions meet online, every single day, multiple times, in every time zone.

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2. Can you access the betrayal trauma support group anywhere?

Betrayal Trauma Support Group Sessions were designed so that you don’t need to leave your home, pay for child care, or rearrange their work schedule.

Our online group sessions eliminate the need for extra time to travel, park, extra money for gas or child care, or lengthy appointments or round-trip drive times.

You can attend a session from your bedroom, garage, or closet – whatever works best for your situation.

3. Do the support group professionals understand the true cause of betrayal trauma?

If you don’t know the cause of betrayal trauma, it’s impossible to heal. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coaches validate victims’ experiences and help women give language to their experiences.

One woman said, “After years of therapy, I was hopeless. Nothing was improving my marriage. My husband was using and lying to me.

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“Then I discovered The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast. It was a revelation. I began attending Betrayal Trauma Group Sessions soon after that. So the Group Sessions opened my eyes. I wasn’t alone! I’ve felt seen when I couldn’t see myself. I felt heard and empowered. I finally started to make progress toward emotional safety and healing.”

4. Is the betrayal trauma support group safe?

Because victims of abuse and betrayal deserve a comfortable and compassionate space to work through the difficult emotions and memories that accompany trauma.

Betrayal Trauma Support Group Sessions have logical, safe guidelines, crafted carefully from years of experience dealing with betrayal trauma victims. Our Support Group ensures women feel protected and safe as they participate.

5. Does the betrayal trauma support group provide accurate, high quality resources?

In addition to the betrayal trauma support group, Betrayal Trauma Recovery has:

  • The Free Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast helps women throughout the world understand what betrayal trauma is and how to heal from it.
  • The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Workshop will teach you thought, boundary, communication, and message strategies to begin to make your way to emotional, and psychological safety. It also includes 13 meditations to heal you without having to make any effort. Victims of betrayal are often overwhelmed and stressed. Some aren’t able to even get out of bed some days. Feeling peace is almost impossible when you feel like your entire world is falling apart. These meditations in the workshop were written specifically for women who need immediate peace and healing.
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Transcript: Women Share How They Found The Best Betrayal Trauma Support Group

Betrayal Trauma Victim #1:  Even though my husband had been unfaithful and had a problem with viewing exploitative content. Therapists looked at our issues as a “couple problem.” The multiple therapists we saw had years of experience, but they knew nothing whatsoever about betrayal trauma, integrity issues or addiction, or the emotional abuse involved.

In fact, my husband was able to successfully gaslight one therapist to the point where he told me that if I would become a, quote, safe person, my husband would quit lying to me. I bet you can guess the result

Yep, my husband lied to me again, and again, and again. It was never about me. So when I finally found BTR, my husband and I had spent over 10 years and 10,000 in and out of couples counseling. Thankfully, everything turned almost on a dime the day I read an article on gaslighting from BTR. This was one of the biggest aha moments of my entire life. It was almost as if I could hear the angel singing in the background as 26 painful years of fog began to lift.

I immediately set up a coaching appointment with one of the BTR coaches and for the first time ever found someone who got it immediately. It’s the best support for betrayal trauma. I didn’t have to convince her, educate her, or prove  a thing. She knew exactly what I was going through because she had been there, too. After years and years and thousands of dollars spent on traditional therapy, I finally found someone who understood exactly what I was going through, named it, educated me, and provided the support and contagious courage needed to become empowered to stop the abuse

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Why Should I Attend Betrayal Trauma Recovery Support Group Sessions?

 Betrayal Trauma Victim #2: I remember the day that I first found BTR.

I was sitting on my back porch listening that day, desperately seeking some kind of help for my soul. I listened to Anne calling Betrayal what it really is, and acknowledging the pain and trauma that it really causes to us women. That podcast changed my life. I burst into tears of healing, validation.

Finally, someone was calling exploitative content use as betrayal. The harm that it actually is. Someone was seeing how abusive it is. Finally, someone had put together all the pieces of the puzzle and so many things finally began to make sense. It was my first moment of validation and clarity. Anne set me on my path of strength and healing right that moment because she was brave enough to share her own strength and healing.

BTR group is the most healing place a woman can possibly be after experiencing betrayal of any sort. It’s a safe, sacred, and healing space. The abuse informed and trained coaches are amazing, loving and wise, and they all remind us there is healing to be found as you navigate through this experience of betrayal trauma.

I just want to give a beg forever thank you to Anne, the Betrayal Trauma Coaches, and to BTR.

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This Betrayal Trauma Support Group Changed My Life

  Betrayal Trauma Victim #3: I’m very thankful for BTR. I feel that God led me to the website when I watched my first video

on exploitative content and betrayal trauma in relationships. I am a firm believer that this is infidelity. BTR group sessions have been so instrumental in my life. I’ve been going the last four months. I can get on every day and feel immediate. Love and support and validation from the coaches .

I just can’t thank the coaches and Ann and BTR enough for helping me through this journey. I feel very positive about my life, my future. Because I know I’ll always have BTR and I know they’re gonna help me get through it.

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   Betrayal Trauma Victim #4: Betrayal trauma recovery has helped me. Put the appropriate names to what I was experiencing and that would be abuse. In this group, The coaches help you feel like you are not the crazy one.

It’s So nice to know that like I’m not the only one. I just really appreciate the viewing exploitative content is abuse period because it’s so easily pushed to the side as a non-issue and it’s affecting so many really pure, noble women.

It helps me feel empowered to take the next step in my journey, whatever that step might be. I just want people to know that they’re not alone, they can listen to their intuition and by coming to BTR and sharing in a safe way, you feel more empowered after you leave the session every time.

Betrayal Trauma Support Group Sessions Helps Victims Create Safety

   Betrayal Trauma Victim #5:  BTR has been a group that has completely changed my life. It was something I didn’t even know was out there, didn’t even know that I needed, but has been a godsend. It’s life changing. The coaches are just your sister and they walk with you.

They help you all along the way. It’s also been good just to be able to watch the other ladies in here, to know that you have a group of people that completely understand where you are, what you’re going through, and even to see the progress you get inspired by their walk. To see the growth that they’ve done to now have the knowledge that we need to move forward to heal.

Whether we decide to stay or goal, BTR just really helps to heal us one step at a time and from the inside out. So I’m so appreciative of this group. It’s the best betrayal trauma resource.

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   Betrayal Trauma Victim #5:   I am more than 10 years post-divorce and I discovered BTR within the last month,

I’m now hearing words that my soul has longed to hear for many decades as I walked, this journey without the resources that I needed. So I’ve experienced more healing that I just needed at this point in my life. The podcasts give me vocabulary and tools and affirmation by attending the group sessions.

I feel affirmed. I feel clarity, The BTR coaches are so professional. There are safeguards in place, so I feel like it’s a safe place to come. BTR coaches love us and they’re so well trained. I’m very, very grateful for BTR.

What is a Betrayal Trauma Support Group Like?

   Betrayal Trauma Victim #6: I was desperate for help and search the internet for answers. I came across info on gaslighting. So this is what I’d been experiencing in my marriage for 26 years. And there’s a name for it. It was literally a mind blowing revelation for me that led me to the BTR website where I went on a podcast binge.

And listen to everything I could get my hands on. The fog of gaslighting began to lift and with the help of one of the coaches, I gained the courage to set some significant and appropriate boundaries. Her sessions were very informative and practical with examples, in a safe situation with feedback and encouragement.

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Are Any Betrayal Trauma Support Groups Online?

Betrayal Trauma Victim #7:  The BTR community is amazing. The support groups, everyone gets it.

There is no judgment. There’s no feelings of being victimized like with some therapists. I truly feel that everyone who participates validates our experience. the coaches Offer very helpful feedback and suggestions. A wealth of information. And I appreciate that people will share what has worked and also what hasn’t worked for them.

I really appreciate the ease of use. Many different times during the day that you can connect with the coaches. You don’t have to wait, and you don’t have to travel. You can do it from your computer. Especially for people with kids, the ability to quickly get an appointment and not have to find a babysitter. You can, you know, toss a movie in for an hour and get your needs met.

Get that validation and that help that we’re all searching for. So I strongly suggest people try it. The fee is nominal. It’s much less than you’re ever going to find anywhere else. You can use as many groups as you want during the month, it’s the best investment you can make in your recovery.

I’m a huge fan. I love the style, the program. I love the model

What are Betrayal Trauma Support Group Sessions Like?

Betrayal Trauma Victim #8:   I was really desperate because therapists, like three of them in a row, didn’t work out. I was very blessed to find BTR. The BTR coaches are just wonderful.

The group meetings. are fulfilling in themselves, but the individual coach meetings are also wonderful. Everybody is so kind and helpful and gives me a lot of hope about what I’ve been going through. Thank you.

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Feel Safe and Validated in a Betrayal Trauma Support Group

Betrayal Trauma Victim #9:   In the midst of Finding out my spouse had been lying and cheating. Again, actually number six that I know of. The deepest, darkest moment of my life. I just happened to find the BTR podcast Words can’t express how listening to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast truly saved my life.

It made me feel like there are others out there. I wasn’t alone. The words of encouragement, education, support, and knowing that The situation is for real, and I wasn’t crazy, it was so comforting. After searching the BTR site, I noticed services were offered that could help even further. I decided now was the time and signed up for Group.

Words truly can’t express how this experience helped in my life. Each story and experience touch my life in so many ways. The encouragement, education, and knowledge received from coaches and other women will forever be a part of my life.

I wish I would have found BTR sooner, but I know it was simply in God’s timing to bring this organization into my life. I look forward to continuing individual sessions. Thank you, BTR and Anne for everythinG.

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    13 Comments

    1. Do you accept health insurance for counseling and or group therapy.

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      • While we do not accept insurance, we DO accept HSA cards. Also, some insurances will reimburse – but you need to check.

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    2. I love this one!! Because I’m in it! And I love all the women who also shared!!! Just hearing their voices (and seeing their faces) is so comforting!!! I could have said everything that the other women also said!!
      BTRG is a lifesaver for me!!! And now tears are filling my eyes thinking about all the times when some terrible things happened and I was able to get on a call almost right away and the coaches were there to help me!!
      The coaches and the other women, I just love them all!!
      Everything that is said in this podcast by everyone is so true!!!

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      • Thanks for sharing, Sue! It really is the best support group for victims of emotional abuse in the world!

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        • What similar type of support group like this do you recommend for husbands who are abstinent and working on their recovery?

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    3. Is there someone I can talk to please.

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      • I know it’s getting late but is there anybody out there I can talk to you really don’t know how much more I can take

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        • Yes, we have Group Sessions that happen everyday. Go here to learn more: btr.org/group

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    4. Would like to know how much each session costs and the average time it took for women to gain safety?

      Many thanks

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    5. Hello, my husband of 27 years passed away in Sept of cancer. Mourning him is one thing but I’ve found he had betrayed me for years drugs cheating while I thought he was working. I believed his lies while he made feel like everything in our marriage was fault. A typical addict. I struggling with reoccurring thoughts of how did i miss the signs, was i enough and list goes on. The symptoms who are exactly how I’m feeling. I would like more info

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