This is provides group and individual coaching for women needing immediate emotional refuge from the pain and chaos caused by their husband’s lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic traits. BTR Group Coaching Sessions occur multiple sessions a day, in every time zone.

The BTR.ORG Podcast educates women all over the world about issues related to emotional and psychological abuse and sexual coercion.

At BTR, we affirm that abuse is a human rights issue, affecting the lives of all people, regardless of age, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, class, religion, and any other differentiating characteristics. We acknowledge and hold pain for all people suffering from the effects of abuse. Because abuse is such a wide-spread issue, we focus our efforts by only serving only women abused by men.

We understand that the pronouns that we use, as well as the subject matter that we cover may not be completely relevant to all victims. However, we invite all to read, listen, and find hope, healing, and safety in the free BTR.ORG Podcast and website:

BTR Coaches

All of our betrayal trauma coaches are trained, certified, and have personal experience.

What We Believe In


BTR aims to protect women from emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and sexual coercion.


BTR aims to build a world-wide army of healthy women empowered to create, set, and hold boundaries to stop abuse.


  • Truth
  • Peace
  • Simplicity
  • Growth
  • Beauty

Our Team

Anne Blythe, M.Ed., Founder, Podcast Host & Producer, Executive Director

After years of attempting to stop her husband’s pornography use and “anger issues”, he was arrested in 2015. Anne educates women about how to safely and effectively navigate their husband’s (or ex’s) psychological abuse and sexual coercion and establish peace in their homes and families. Anne is the producer and host of the BTR Podcast.

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Coach Joi, Clinical Director

Joi is the Clinical Director of BTRCenter For Peace. She is a professional abuse and betrayal trauma coach with 25 years experience. She specializes in helping men recognize abusive behaviors and entitlement thinking. As a betrayal trauma coach, she helps women navigate the abuse & set boundaries for emotional, physical, and sexual safety.

Joi’s goal is that ALL abusive behaviors stop, including gaslighting and manipulation. During the recovery process, Joi empowers the victim to hold healthy boundaries. It’s Joi’s life mission to help men exhibiting abusive behaviors stop, make restitution for the harm they’ve caused, and become a center for peace.

Joi holds a Masters in Addiction Counseling, with an emphasis on multiple behavioral addictions (MAAC). She is a Marriage and Family Life Educator (BS), trained by BYU-I & Aspen Family Wellness (BCC), The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS CPC), certified as a Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control Specialist through Called to Peace, certified as a Domestic Abuse Specialist through The Utah Association of Domestic Violence Treatment, Certified Symbis Marriage Facilitator (CSMF), and trained with Dr. Omar Minwalla on his Compulsive-Entitled Sexuality Model (CES) and Compulsive Abusive Sexual and Relational Disorder, which includes integrity and conduct disorders (CASRD). She directs the Certified Abuse Specialist Program at Center for Peace (CAS).

Virginia, Digital Education Director

Jane, Content Director

Libby, Operations Director

Kari, Anne’s Assistant

Center For Peace

If you’re looking for a program for men who exhibit abusive behaviors, we recommend our partner organization Center For Peace, the only organization that views lies, porn use, and infidelity as abuse.

Volunteers & Interns

Volunteering is a great way to learn and practice marketable skills. We are currently looking for help in the following areas:
– Fundraising
– Social Media
– Video Production
– Networking / Collaborations

Internships are available for women enrolled in related programs at the college level.

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