Our Mission

Betrayal Trauma Recovery, a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, is a safe place for women needing immediate emotional refuge from the pain, chaos, and isolation associated with their husband's abuse and related behaviors: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic behaviors. We do not advocate for divorce, but help our clients establish safety in their lives and families, in whatever form that takes. 

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Our Logo

The fleur de lis, created by two Bs, for Betrayal, placed back to back, represent moving forward after betrayal. This symbol was on the coat of arms made for Joan of Arc. We aim to channel her fearless dedication to God. For Joan, the three top petals represented praying, working, and fighting. Although the symbol is used for war, it also represents something beautiful - the lily.

For us, the three top petals represent Surrendering Our Will To God, Boundaries, and Self Care.

The symbol also resembles a butterfly, symbolizing our triumphant transformation from the dark cocoon of trauma to a bright life, connected with God, safe from abuse. For us, our true beauty can shine forth as we grow from our experiences.

Our Team

Every woman on our team has a loved one with a pornography addiction and has experienced betrayal trauma first hand.

Executive Director - Anne
- Mother Of Three
- Divorced
- M.Ed. & APSATS Trained
- Anne's Facebook Page

After years of attempting to help her husband recover from his pornography addiction, he was arrested for domestic violence in 2015. Daily, she receives desperate messages from women all over the world. Anne seeks to educate women about how to safely and effectively navigate their husband’s abuse, pornography / sex addiction and establish peace in their lives and homes. She now lives a relatively peaceful life with her three young children. Anne is the producer and host of the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast and founder of Betrayal Trauma Recovery, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit online coaching practice for women. All of the coaches at Betrayal Trauma Recovery are trained by The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS).

Social Media - V
- Mother Of One
- Separated, Hoping

Events - MM
- Mother Of Five
- Married, Two Sons-In-Law In Recovery

Grants / Fundraising - MC / MH
- Mother Of Five
- Divorced

Content Editor / Newsletter - MS
- Mother Of Four
- Divorced

Treasurer - R
- Mother of Four

BTR - Secret Group Admins
All our volunteer secret group admins are women who are or have been married to pornography users, and trained specifically to establish safety in the group by setting boundaries and mentoring other women on safe sharing.

Volunteers & Interns

  • Women interested in volunteering need to have had a family member or friend with sexual addiction.
  • Internships are available to women who have or have had a family member or friend with a pornography or sexual addiction and are enrolled in a marketing, PR, communications, or MPA program at the college level.

Please email anne@btr.org for more information.

Our Coaches