About Betrayal Trauma Recovery

If you found out you can’t trust your husband, The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast shares stories from women dealing with their husband’s lies, cheating, anger, and other betrayals.

You’re not alone. Learn more about betrayal trauma.

OUR TEAM

Our team is trained, certified, and have personal experience with betrayal trauma. If you don’t trust husband, we know exactly how to help you.

Coach Elia Betrayal Trauma

Anne BLYTHE, M.Ed. - FOUNDER

Anne is a passionate advocate for women navigating betrayal trauma. Through 7 years while married and 8 years post divorce, Anne experienced her husband and then ex-husband’s continued lying. She’s done over 200 (and counting) interviews with women who bravely shared their stories on her podcast.

With a Master’s Degree in Curriculum and Instruction, Anne created The Living Free Workshop to equip women with emotional safety strategies when she can’t trust husband.

Coach Elia Betrayal Trauma

Coach Elia

BA, MA, CDC, CLC

Elia earned a Bachelor of Arts from Texas Tech University and a Master’s Degree from the University of Hawaii. She is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach (CDC) and a Certified Transformation and Mindset Life Coach (CLC).

Elia specializes in supporting women as they navigate trauma responses that feel at odds with their core values. With honesty and compassion, she helps clients release feelings of self-blame, guilt, and remorse.

Her coaching builds inner strength and confidence, whether her clients choose to remain in their relationships or take steps toward separation or divorce.

Coach Jo

Coach Jo

CLC

Jo brings a decade of experience in financial planning, has an Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Certification, and is a Certified Life Coach (CLC).

Jo focuses on helping women rebuild their lives by creating actionable plans based on their individual strengths. She has a gift for inspiring her clients to dream again and pursue new possibilities after significant life changes.

As a former stay-at-home and homeschool mother, Jo understands the challenges of finding your footing and establishing a career after a major life transition.

Coach Sharon

Coach Sharon

BA, BCC

Sharon is a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coach with over 20 years of experience. She’s passionate about exposing injurious thought patterns caused by spiritual abuse.

As a survivor of psychological and spiritual abuse, and sexual coercion, Sharon is determined to support women to reframe their value and maintain their spiritual footing.
She speaks truth directly, yet compassionately. And she challenges anything that undermines a woman’s ability to see her truth worth.

Sharon has a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and Criminal Justice from University of Massachusetts Boston. Sharon is a Board Certified Coach (BCC).

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Coach Renee

CLC, HCDCC, PMDC

Renee is a United States Navy Veteran, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach (HCDCC), Certified Pre-Mediation Divorce Coach (PMDC), Certified Emotional Intelligence Coach, Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Certification, and Certified Life Coach (CLC).

Renee helps women reconnect with their intuition, voice, and inner strength. With deep empathy and validation, she creates a safe space for clients to process their experiences, particularly for those recovering from narcissistic abuse.

Whether her clients are navigating separation, divorce, or other challenges, Renee guides them toward building a secure path forward.

Betrayal Trauma Coach Jen

Coach Jen

BS, BCC, CRC, RCS

Jen holds a Bachelor’s degree in Education and is a Certified Resilience Coach (CRC), and a Relationship Coaching Specialist (RCS), and a Board-Certified Coach (BCC).

Jen specializes in guiding women to apply strategies from The Living Free Workshop to create peace in the midst of chaos.

She has a deep understanding of the impact of betrayal on mental and physical health and provides a safe, supportive environment for her clients. Through her coaching, Jen helps women thrive after separation or divorce.

Individual and Group Sessions

We provide Group and Individual Sessions for women who don’t trust their husband. Do you need immediate emotional refuge from the pain and chaos caused by your husband’s lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic traits?

BTR.ORG Group Coaching Sessions occur multiple sessions a day, in every time zone.

Across the globe, we welcome women with open arms and hearts.

The BTR.ORG Podcast educates women all over the world about issues related to trust and betrayal, specifically emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion.

At BTR.ORG, we affirm that abuse is a human rights issue, affecting the lives of all people, regardless of age, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, class, religion, and any other differentiating characteristics. We acknowledge and hold pain for all people suffering from the effects of abuse. Because abuse is such a wide-spread issue, we focus our efforts by only serving adult women abused by men in romantic relationships.

We understand that the pronouns that we use, as well as the subject matter that we cover may not be completely relevant to all victims. However, we invite those victims who fall outside the scope of our services to contact their local domestic abuse services.

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BTR.ORG Podcast Info

Anne Blythe, M.Ed. Produces & Hosts an episode each week. Guests include victims who have learned they can’t trust their husband. These women courageously share the stories  of when they discovered his infidelity, porn use, and deceit. Anne also interviews advocates/experts in related fields.

Tune in on your favorite podcasting platform, including Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast is currently entirely free to listeners.

All episodes are transcribed.

Release Schedule

Weekly downloadable episodes are released every Tuesday.

Accessibility

Every episode is available in audio and written form (transcription) on BTR.ORG. Our website is ADA compliant.

Financial Support

Advocates can Support the Podcast by making a recurring monthly donation.

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Hands Down The Best Abuse Podcast

Anne does an incredible job exposing abuse, especially the subtleties and the underlying belief systems that allow abuse to fly under the radar. She has a lineup of guests, including well-known experts, that leave no stone unturned. Episode by episode the picture of abuse becomes crystal clear, empowering survivors to take steps toward safety.

If you can’t trust your husband, Anne is the person to turn to. She knows exactly what to do.

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BTR Offers Hope

Navigating life after abuse is difficult and it’s hard to know what is real and normal after leaving abuse. BTR talks about the hard and yet offers hope that it is possible to overcome what was done to us and that it doesn’t have to negatively impact the rest of our life.

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Clears So Many Things Up

So thankful for this podcast. I found BTR through Insta and after a year or more of not being sure if I wanted to contront myself with difficult truths by listening to the podcast. But I finally did last week. I’m so thankful and so relieved. Why on earth did I wait so long? I’m not insane or stupid! Anne explains and talks through so many facets of betrayal, so well and brings clarity to so many thoughts that were just running in circles. This is so fascinating.

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Essential Conversations

I am very recently out of a long term abusive marriage. I did not realize I was being abused. What I’ve learned is that I’m not alone. There are a lot of women in abusive relationships who don’t understand what’s happening or, like me, were told by a couple’s therapist that I should be doing things differently and it’s half my fault. I kept believing the lies and trying harder. When I found this podcast it was so validating. It was literally describing exactly what I was going htrough and labeling it as abuse. The conversations on the podcast are vital because I spent years going to different therapists and reading books and not until I found BTR did anyone explain how using porn can be abuse, or how gaslighting is abuse, or how maintaining false promises is abuse. The podcast really shook me out of the fog of confusion I was being kept in by my abuesr and gave me tools and changed my life.

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I wish I would have found BTR sooner

After listening to The BTR.ORG Podcast, I starting attending BTR Group Sessions.

Words truly can’t express how the BTR Group Sessions helped me! I was so impressed with the BTR Coaches and brave women. Each story & experience shared touched my life in so many ways!

I wish I would have found BTR sooner, but know it simply was in God’s timing to bring this organization into my life! I look forward to continuing Individual Sessions! Thank you BTR & Anne for everything!”

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Thank You

Thank you for helping women who have been in emotionally and sexually abusive marriages and for calling out pornography as abusive. Thank you.

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Grateful

The clarity the BTR Coaches have given me is incredible. I’m so grateful that I can schedule Individual Sessions when I need more time to process. I love BTR!

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BTR Group Sessions are amazing

When I first was started attending BTR Group Sessions, my world had turned upside down and I was lost. The BTR Coaches brought me through the overwhelming emotions and guided me to advocate for myself. In BTR, I’ve found deep friendships, support, and strength. BTR Group Sessions are amazing!