Have you recently discovered your spouse’s secret pornography use? Are you terrified he will expose your child to it – whether on purpose or accidentally? You’re not alone.
Internet Filters Help, But Boundaries Protect
Internet filters can help moms find some degree of peace of mind. But what about preemptive boundaries?
If you’ve recently discovered your partner’s secret pornography use, consider some of these actions you might take:
- Live in a separate space from the pornography user
- Listen to this interview with Kristen Jensen from Defend Young Minds
- After listening to Anne’s interview with Kristen, have a proactive conversations with your children to help them defend themselves against pornography
- Head over to Defend Young Minds to read My Spouse Has a Porn Problem – Four Tips for Talking to Kids
Pornography Exposure & Sexual Abuse
It’s essential for mothers to understand that children exposed to pornography are experiencing a form of sexual abuse.
Children are not equipped to handle pornographic material. Please do your best to immediately seek proper support for your child.
Do not blame, shame, or punish your child. This may only further traumatize them.
BTR.ORG Is Here For You
Moms coping with betrayal trauma often feel overwhelmed and desperate for help. Parenting can feel daunting. Here at BTR.ORG, we understand.
Please offer yourself compassion and grace as you navigate this deeply painful journey.
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