by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Clarity After Betrayal

Wondering how to move on from betrayal? This workshop gives you a simple, steady roadmap to clarity and emotional safety. Especially if you’ve already tried couple therapy or a recovery program.

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$27 $85

Anne Blythe, M.ED

Video Lessons

Downloadable Workbook

13 Healing Meditations

Moving On From Betrayal Requires Clarity

If discovering your husband’s lies (and trying to move forward) has left you exhausted, overwhelmed, or quietly hopeless, you’re not alone.

Most women spend years in therapy or in church offices trying to fix the marriage…only to end up more confused than when they started.

Not because they failed, but because no one ever explained the patterns keeping them from moving forward.

For the chaos to stop, you need to understand what’s actually happening.

This workshop gives you the clarity that’s been missing whether you’re married, separated, or divorced.

  • No blame.
  • No therapy jargon.
  • No pressure to work harder.

Just the truth, in a way that finally makes sense.

This workshop Gives You...

a clear Roadmap

Know exactly what’s happening, what it means, and what to do next.

Principles to Guide You

Feel anchored when everything around you feels confusing.

Strategies for Peace

Feel calm in your body and home.

This workshop is for you if:

you’ve discovered your husband has been lying

you've spent years in couple therapy

Your Husband Uses Inappropriate Media

You Feel Betrayed by Your Husband

You're Wondering if He's Emotionally Abusive

Your Ex is Still Causing Chaos

What's Included

Short, Clear Video Lessons

13 Meditations to Bring You Immediate Peace

Downloadable Workbook
…but you can also just use a blank piece of paper

Lifetime Access

What you’ll learn:

  • Why you can trust your intuition.
  • Daily strategies to reduce confusion.
  • A path to achieve your goals.
  • Strategies for peace without needing therapy or explanations.

$27 $85

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Meet the Teacher

Expert Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Anne Blythe, M.Ed

Author, Founder & Executive Director

Anne is the Producer and Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast and the author of Trauma Mama Husband Drama.

After spending seven years trying to make sense of her marriage and another eight years navigating the aftermath, Anne has interviewed more than 200 women who’ve experienced betrayal. Her work is grounded in their stories, in knowing exactly what women wished they’d known when they were confused, scared, and trying to hold their families together.

How Women Feel About The Workshop

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

This workshop is the first thing since I found out about my husband’s betrayal that’s actually helped me feel excited about my future.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I couldn’t sleep after I found out my husband had been lying to me for years. But now, I fall asleep listening to one of Anne’s meditation almost every night.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff?

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I was at wit’s end after going to multiple therapists after my husband’s infidelity. I’d tried everything. This workshop finally helped me figure out why things hadn’t been working. Thank you, Anne!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

This so clearly shows the toxic communication patterns he was using. It was like Anne had screenshots of my husband’s texts. I wish I would have known this four years ago!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I’d been going to therapy for years. I was so sick of hearing myself talk about it. This helped me more than years of talk therapy!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

After this workhop, I finally knew what to do instead of go the rounds with him. So much better than the advice the therapist gave me that never worked.

Workshop Content

SECTION 1
1. Your Attempts
2. Transactionships
3. Parable of the Cave
4. Seeing In The Dark
5. Internal Warning System
6. Sacred Warnings
7. Current Bests
8. Peaceful Moments
9. Who You Are
10. Your Life
11. Your Brain
12. Making Space for YOU
SECTION 2
13. Unsafe People
14. Safe People
15. The Help Trap
16. The Access Trap
17. The Communication Trap
18. The Solution Trap
19. The List Trap
20. The Boundary Trap
21. My Values
22. Safe Boundaries
23. Tiny Boundaries
24. Effective Boundaries
25. Evolve…
26. …and Keep Trying
27. Too Legit To Quit
28. Sacred Warnings
29. Identify The Lies
30. Fears & Shadows
31. Identify The Truth
SECTION 3
32. Too Hot To Open
33. Stop, Drop, and ROLL
34. I Forgot
35. I’m Happy & Pleasant
36. I’m So Confused, It’s Funny
37. I’m Helpful
38. I Agree
39. Avoiding Traps
40. Carmen
41. Rina
42. Stacey
43. Your Next Steps…
SECTION 4: Meditations
I AM RESOLUTE
I AM TRUTH
I AM PROTECTED
I AM JUST RIGHT
I AM CAPABLE
I AM BRAVE
I AM LOVED
I AM SECURE
I AM SAFE
I AM HEALING
I AM OPEN
I AM GRATEFUL
I AM . . .
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Frequently asked questions

How long is the Workshop?

The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Workshop is in 5 Sections.

Sections 1-4 go step-by-step through short video lessons:

   – Total run time for the Workshop Lessons is around 2 hours and 50 minutes.
   – Average video is 3 minutes long
   – Shortest video is: 28 seconds
   – Longest video is 6 minutes
   – Includes a beautiful, downloadable PDF workbook (but you can just use a blank piece of paper if that’s easier)
   – Some women just watch the videos. The workbook is only there if women want to go deeper.

Section 5 includes 13 Meditations:

   – Each meditation is religion / paradigm neutral
   – Imagine the healing light as whatever works for you
   – Rest knowing that things are working toward your ultimate good
   – Feel peace immediately when you’re distressed and hopeless
   – Gain insights and confidence without needing to do a thing
  

Is the BTR Workshop right for me?

If you are a woman over the age of 18, who is currently (or has been) in a marriage where you experienced betrayal (in the form of your husband’s lies, secret pornography use, infidelity, or emotional & psychological abuse), then YES!

This workshop is for women who are still married, separated, or divorced.

If you want to heal from your husband’s (or ex’s) betrayal, YES, this workshop is for YOU!

Once I’ve enrolled, how do I access the Workshop?

Login to the BTR.ORG Client Login then click Workshop

How long will I have access?

For as long as BTR exists:)! We’re grateful for your continued support.

Can I schedule an Individual Session with Anne?

Anne teaches women about how to heal from betrayal in marriage on all BTR.ORG educational platforms – including the The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast and social media and directs the team here at BTR. She does a LIVE Q&A once a month in our Group Sessions.

If you’d like guidance from our team about how to implement the workshop strategies in your own situation, click here to see the Group Session Schedule.

Know how to see the truth and what to do next

These tools will help you step out of his vortex of chaos and find peace today.

Workshop

$27 $85 One Time
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Understand the Chaos

Learn to see the truth clearly and confidently.

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Effective Strategies

The first and only detailed guide to specific thought, boundary, and communication strategies that work.

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Remove Barriers

The video lessons, workbook exercises, and meditations will give you immediate traction.

You’ll start to feel more peaceful almost immediately and transform your life through tiny, doable steps.