by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
The After Betrayal Clarity Kit
The After Betrayal Clarity Kit outlines everything you need to know BEFORE you invest more time, energy, or money starting over with another couple therapist or recovery program.
Just to be absolutely clear:
- I’m not asking you to stop therapy.
- And I’m certainly not asking you to give up on your marriage.
But I am sharing something very few people ever get access to.
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If You Could Share With Others What You Wish You'd Known
I interviewed over 200 women and asked: “If you could go back in time and tell yourself one thing the moment you discovered his betrayal, what would it be?”
Their answers were heartbreaking, consistent, and incredibly wise.
They shared what they wished they’d known (not because they failed), but because they wanted YOU to avoid the years of confusion, pain, and false starts they went through.
The After Betrayal Clarity Kit gives you those exact insights — the ones over 200 women told me they wished they’d had so they didn’t walk into therapy without the full picture.
Because almost every woman said the same thing:
“If I’d known this sooner, therapy probably would have gone completely differently.”
If It's Not Adding Up After Betrayal
You’ve been running on empty for a long time. And somehow you still keep going.
After discovering her husband’s betrayal, that’s what women do because they love their families. Even when it’s emotional torture, most betrayed wives don’t fall apart.
They do the opposite.
I’ve interviewed over 200 women who experienced betrayal trauma, and every single one of them somehow found the strength to keep navigating:
- counseling
- supporting his “recovery”
- reading marriage books
- giving him space
- using I statements
- working on themselves
- staying patient
- keeping the home running and meeting all the kids needs
- taking advice from therapists, pastors, and friends
If your husband betrayed you, I’m absolutely certain you’ve done everything a responsible, loyal, committed woman would do.
But let me guess, none of it seems to have helped you?
This is For You If...
you've spent years in couple therapy
you’ve discovered your husband has been lying
Your Husband Uses Inappropriate Media & No One Thinks It's A Big Deal
You're Wondering if He's Emotionally Abusive
The After Betrayal Clarity Kit: 5 Sections
Section 1: Why Your Effort Has Always Been Enough
Why it makes sense that you tried everything you could to improve the situation.
And why it’s not your fault it didn’t work.
Section 2: Why Progress Isn’t Happening
How external forces (not you) have blocked your hard work from gaining any traction.
Section 3: Why Explaining Things To Him Hasn't Worked
Why honesty, “connection,” and open dialogue haven’t resolved anything.
(Spoiler: it’s still not your fault.)
Section 4: Why Written Communication Escalates
Why things stay confusing, even in writing, and what his patterns reveal.
Section 5: When You Don’t Need To Do Anything To Feel Better
Meditations you can use anytime for immediate peace.
What’s Inside The Clarity Kit
A Crystal-Clear Explanation of His Thought Process
…the “why” most women never get access to
Examples of the Exact Patterns You’re Seeing
…and what they actually mean
Real-Life Illustrations from 200+ Women
…patterns revealed by women who’ve lived it
Downloadable Workbook
…or just use blank paper
13 Meditations for Immediate Peace
… for whenever you feel overwhelmed
What You’ll Walk Away With
A completely different understanding of your relationship,
without pressure, without labels, and without fear.
$27 $85
Meet the Teacher
Anne Blythe, M.Ed
Author, Founder & Executive Director
Anne is the Producer and Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast and the author of Trauma Mama Husband Drama.
After spending seven years trying to make sense of her marriage and another eight years navigating the aftermath, Anne has interviewed more than 200 women who’ve experienced betrayal. Her work is grounded in their stories, in knowing exactly what women wished they’d known when they were confused, scared, and trying to hold their families together.
This is the first thing (since I found out about my husband’s betrayal) that’s actually helped me feel excited about my future.
I couldn’t sleep after I found out my husband had been lying to me for years. But now, I fall asleep listening to one of Anne’s meditation almost every night.
So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff?
I was at wit’s end after going to multiple therapists after my husband’s infidelity. I’d tried everything. This finally helped me figure out why things hadn’t been working. Thank you, Anne!
This so clearly shows the toxic communication patterns he was using. It was like Anne had screenshots of my husband’s texts. I wish I would have known this four years ago!
I’d been going to therapy for years. I was so sick of hearing myself talk about it. This helped me more than years of talk therapy!
Your kit helped me see what to do instead of go the rounds with him. So much better than the advice the therapist gave me that never worked.
Frequently asked questions
Know how to see the truth and what to do next
These tools will help you step out of his vortex of chaos and find peace today.
The After Betrayal Clarity Kit
$27 a month
Understand the Chaos
Learn to see the truth clearly and confidently.
What Over 200 Women Said
The first and only structured outline of what women wished they knew after betrayal.
One Weekly Live Q & A
Get 1 Live Q&A per week with Anne or member of her team.
