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WORKBOOK GROUPS

What’s great about workbook study?

  • You can participate from anywhere in the world, at any time of day, in any time zone.

  • It's convenient and private.

  • It’s affordable.

Workbook: Facing Heartbreak
16 weeks @ $160 ($10 per week)  + workbook purchase cost
Online workbook study with Coach Rae
Starts May 1, 2017
Limited to 12 participants

Facing Heartbreak is designed to gently educate, empower and guide you through betrayal trauma. You’ll learn new ways to process much of that pain, and you'll explore your own capacity for hope, healing and personal recovery. This workbook study provides a SAFE space for you to read, write and share your responses to the content of each chapter. Participants are invited to post your work and invite feedback from others. Workbook study includes weekly assignments, feedback, and four secret Facebook Live Q & A Sessions (within the secret group) with Coach Rae. 

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


Workbook: The Spiral Path — Who Am I Beyond Betrayal Trauma?
24 weeks @ $240 ($10 per week)  + workbook purchase cost
Online workbook study with Coach Rae
Starts June 1, 2017
Limited to 12 participants

From Heather Plett: "Sometimes we get lost. This course will help you come back to yourself.” 

The Spiral Path is a workbook designed to help soulful women reclaim themselves. Using a series of inspirational lessons, creative exercises and reflection questions, Coach Rae supports you in RELEASING what no longer serves you, RECEIVING what you need, and RETURNING to the woman you’re always meant to be.

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


LIVE COACHING GROUPS

What’s great about a live, online coaching group?

  • You can participate from anywhere in the world.

  • It's convenient and private.

  • It’s more affordable than one-on-one coaching. 

Top Ten Betrayal Trauma Topics for Wives
10 live coaching sessions @ $400 ($40 per session, includes original materials)
Live group coaching with Coach Rae
Wednesdays @ 5:00PM Eastern (Starts April 26, 2017)
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

Top Ten Betrayal Trauma Topics for Wives is a ten-week coaching program for any women recovering within a relationship wounded by infidelity, pornography, secrets and/or sex addiction. Due to the uniquely personal nature of these issues, we often feel acutely and intolerably ALONE, especially when local support is limited or nonexistent. As women, we rarely heal from betrayal trauma independently, isolated from others. Facilitated by Coach Rae, this fast-paced journey digs into some of our most popular conversations and “frequently asked questions.” For more details, schedule a free consultation with Coach Rae or email rae@btr.org.

"Coach Rae has been an amazing source of validation, acceptance and empowerment. She has a way with words and makes you think without even trying, it seems. She speaks softly but carries a big stick. Her compassion and empathy are matched by her knowledge about what we spouses go through, if we stay or choose divorce. She has been invaluable in my healing," A, MI

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


Relapse Preparedness Workshop: “Just In Case” with Coach Rae
4 live coaching sessions @ $160 ($40 per session, includes materials)
Live group coaching with Coach Rae
Saturdays @ 12:00PM Eastern (Starts June 3, 2017)
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

Relapse Preparedness: “Just In Case” is a four-week workshop for any woman recovering within a relationship wounded by infidelity, pornography, secrets and/or sex addiction. Its purpose is to create an authentic, effective and proactive plan of action, to support you through the prospect of an SA slip or relapse. 

What's covered in the Relapse Preparedness Workshop? When we say “workshop,” we actually mean it! Come prepared to dive in, do some serious footwork, and leave with something reassuringly concrete.

  • In Session One, Coach Rae helps each woman to identify her own top priority needs. She’ll provide a list of coaching questions, prompts to help you outline your own Relapse Preparedness Plan.
  • In Session Two, we review those outlines as a group, while Coach Rae helps participants to work through any problematic "tough spots.”
  • In Session Three, we discuss the challenges that could potentially throw your plans off track. We also strategize the safest, most effective ways to communicate (or to not communicate) those plans to your SA loved one.
  • In Session Four, we do a final group review of each woman's Relapse Preparedness Plan. We’ll speak and hear the ways each woman feels she's grown through the process of this workshop, and we’ll take a mutual support pledge to contact one another if our plans need to be utilized. 

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


COMING SOON

Betrayal & Boundaries Workshop
6 live coaching sessions @ $240 ($40 per session, includes materials) 
Tuesdays @ 9:00PM Eastern (Starts May 2017) 
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

Christian Workbook: Rescued
Spring/Summer 2017
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

Surviving & Thriving Through Divorce
Spring/Summer 2017
Limited to 5 participants (minimum 3)

Growing Through Grief
Spring/Summer 2017
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

Our Quest for Closure
Spring/Summer 2017
Limited to 6 participants (minimum 3)

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How Can I Protect & Heal My Children?
Summer 2017
2 Hour Online Workshop, includes original materials, journaling questions, and resource list
Limited to 10 participants

This is your chance to ask questions about your specific family dynamics - and to learn from questions posed by other women in similar situations. Guest Coach Lori Rubenstein is a divorce, mediation and child advocacy EXPERT - and she'll respond with direct, knowledgable and realistic feedback, all within a safe group environment. 90 minutes of workshop time with Coach Lori and Coach Rae, followed by a 30-minute process group (optional) with Coach Rae immediately afterward. *Women who are still undecided, or are thoughtfully considering divorce or separation are warmly welcome.

Common Questions:

  • What measures can I take to protect my kids, particularly at times when they're not with me?
  • Are my requests reasonable?
  • Are my expectations realistic?
  • Should my kids be in counseling? If so, how do I choose the right kind of counsellor?
  • What is my ex won't respect my boundaries?
  • What if my kids are exposed to porn while they're with my ex?
  • My ex blames me for the divorce because I'm the one who filed. Now he's telling the kids that I'm the reason our family isn't together. How do I deal with that?
  • I hate that my kids have been hurt by their father's actions and my responses to it. how can help them heal from this family trauma?

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


Surviving & Thriving Through Divorce
Summer 2017

12 live coaching sessions @ $480 ($40 per session), includes original materials
Live group coaching with Coach Rae
Limited to 5 participants (minimum 3)

Surviving & Thriving Through Divorce is a four-month program for any woman whose marriage does NOT survive the trauma of sexual betrayal. Unlike other programs that support ALL partners of sex addicts (regardless of their relationship status), this group focuses EXCLUSIVELY on the needs of divorced, divorcing and separated women. As your facilitator, Coach Rae is qualified to support your healing on multiple levels: first, from the underlying horror of betrayal trauma, then from the secondary (sometimes deeper) trauma of divorce itself. 

What's covered in Surviving & Thriving Through Divorce? Each live support session coaches participants through your own specific and real-time transitions—including emotional, functional and relational stressors triggered by a divorce as a result of sex addiction. Sessions are 90-120 minutes, depending upon number of participants. Additionally, as few resources exist for this growing demographic, Coach Rae has written her own original content, addressing ten key topics during the four-month program:

  • Discovery Day: The beginning of the end.
  • The “D” Word: How did I decide to divorce?
  • Disintegration: How do I now relate to my ex husband? 
  • Detailing the Damage: What have I lost in this whole experience? 
  • Death Spiral: How am I experiencing grief in response to my divorce?
  • Divorcing Homes, Divided Hearts: How is this divorce affecting my family and social relationships? 
  • Does Divorce Equal Failure? If my marriage failed, what does that say about me?
  • Discovering Me—Who Am I, Anyway? What’s my identity in the aftermath of this experience?
  • Date Night? In light of this divorce, what about sex, intimacy, womanhood and romantic relationships?
  • Designing Our New Lives: What kind of post-divorce life do I want?
  • PLUS two bonus topics chosen by participants. Common requests include boundaries, closure, decision making, fears, financial stability, the legal system, parenting, self-care and self-esteem.

For more details, email Coach Rae at rae@btr.org


Workbook: Intimate Treason
Summer 2017

12 weeks @ $120 ($10 per week) + workbook purchase cost ($13.87)
Online workbook study with Coach Cat
Limited to 6 participants

Intimate Treason is a self-help workbook for any woman in an intimate relationship with her sexually addicted spouse. Participants are invited to post your work and invite feedback from others (to whatever degree you feel able and comfortable). As your facilitator, Coach Cat will keep the group safely on track, support you through exploring your most intimate betrayals, and help you gain the most possible (and practical) recovery during our 3 months together. Workbook study includes weekly assignments, feedback, and three secret Facebook Live Q & A Sessions (within the secret group) with Coach Cat. 

For more details, email Coach Cat at cat@btr.org