This book changed my life. Right after my husband was arrested and charged with domestic violence, I was so confused. I didn't believe that my husband was actually abusive - he had done some abusive things, right, but I wasn't in the type of abusive relationship where I had to get out. Was I? This book helped me understand abuse in a way I never had before. Why Does He Do That is a must read for any woman struggling with the chaos of abuse.