Are you grappling with the thought that your husband may be acting out or in a relationship with another man? This particular form of betrayal trauma can come as a shock when you are in a heterosexual relationship with your partner – not because you are homophobic, but simply because you have known your partner to be heterosexual.
You’re not alone: the trauma of betrayal is indescribable and BTR can help you through this.
Is My Husband Betraying Me With Men? 3 Signs
Your husband may be acting out with other men if:
- You have found gay pornography on your husband’s phone/device
- Your husband is spending time at gay bars or sexual establishments
- Your husband has previously had sexual relationships with men
However, the very best indicator that your husband is acting out with other men is your intuition. If you don’t have evidence or can’t find anything to back up why you have a feeling that something is off, trusting your gut is essential.
I Think My Husband Is Acting Out With Other Men: What Do I Do?
If your intuition is telling you that your husband may be acting out with other men, you may feel intensely betrayed, confused, inadequate, and/or angry. These emotions are completely normal and must be accepted and felt.
Understand that there is a difference between an individual who identifies as LGBTQIA+ and an individual who is simply escalating their sexual acting-out behaviors.
Either way, you need support.
Betrayal Trauma Recovery Is Here For You
Women experiencing betrayal trauma can feel very isolated from others. Support during this time is pivotal.
Your unique situation may feel shameful, embarrassing, or unrelatable – but you’re not alone.
The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group meets daily in every single time zone. This community is comprised of women all over the world who have experienced significant betrayal and can understand and empathize with what you are feeling. Join today and begin your journey to healing.