Coach Rae, CPLC, CCRC, CDRC, APSATS-CPC
Rae is an APSATS Certified Partner Coach (CPC), and a Certified Life, Relationship and Divorce Recovery Coach. Within this field, she combines 15 years of personal and professional experience, “down in the trenches” with other women, reeling (and healing) together from the impact of betrayal trauma.
In her professional world, Rae has dedicated her coaching career exclusively to women, working in support of those who encounter “S” issues (infidelity, pornography, secrets and/or sex addiction) in the men they know and love. In her personal world, Rae has spent the entirety of her current marriage (ten years and counting) recovering alongside her sex addict husband, healing within the rooms of S-Anon, Al-Anon and therapy, supported by various coaches, sponsors and other specialists.
As a young woman of faith, Rae survived a traumatic divorce following her first husband’s infidelity and abandonment. From that experience, she carries passionate sensitivity to the needs of divorced, divorcing and separated women.
Inspired by her clients, Rae has developed coaching programs designed to support women through ALL stages of betrayal trauma, relationship resolution (or dissolution) and personal recovery: for women who remain in their SA relationships, for women whose relationships do NOT survive, and for women who remain uncertain about their past, present or future.
As an avowed introvert, Rae enjoys knitting, coloring and graphic design. Her lifelong goal is to “be still and know”—it’s such a huge vision for her life, in fact, that those four words are written in ginormous letters (no joke) across the wall of her southern California office.
"Rae was my life coach during arguably the most difficult time in my life, and I've found her guidance to be competent, realistic and compassionate. While preparing to separate from my pornography-addicted husband, I joined one of her phone coaching sessions for women in the same stage of life. Emotionally, I was all over the place. I was a very broken woman when Coach Rae found me... She had the experience and the genuine goodness within her to help women in my position, women who came to her feeling worthless and alone. I appreciate very much the help and guidance she has been able to offer me and would recommend her expertise to anyone else in the same position." — Cassie S, USA