Betrayal Trauma Recovery blog
Betrayal Trauma Recovery helps women establish safety from the pain, chaos, and isolation associated with their husband’s abuse: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic behaviors.
Why Pornography Use Is Really Adultery
Is pornography use really adultery? Does it equate to cheating within a committed relationship? What does virtual sex even mean? Generally, when we talk about virtual sex, we are meaning the use pornography coupled with arousal and masturbation for the viewer of it. Anne and her mother sit down to talk about their thoughts surrounding pornography as adultery.
Can Legitimate Anger Be Helpful?
Anne speaks about legitimate anger and what it means and looks like, and even why it is ok. Anger can help women set boundaries and find safety and peace in the midst of trauma and turmoil.
The Healing Power In Saying “Me-Too”
Anne speaks with Chaena, author of The Value in Violation, who shares her thoughts on the empowerment survivors gain from the culture of Me-Too and how pain can be transformed into power.
The Truth About Wife Rape
Join Anne as she interviews Wendy, survivor of marital rape. Listen to how this experience has impacted Wendy’s life. Gain valuable information about wife rape and sexual assault within marriage. Learn why this is so damaging and harmful to victims.
What About Recovery For Me?
Anne speaks with BTR coach Joi about the benefits of Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group and how it can provide connection for women at any point in their journey to healing. BTRG can help foster connection with other women who know and who have been through the pain and anguish to the other side of healing.
Why The Traditional Sex Addiction Model Is Harmful
Anne speaks with Dr. Omar Minwalla about his work in implementing the trauma model to treat partners of sexual betrayal. Dr. Minwalla explains the problems with the traditional sex addiction model.
Fear Not The Shame Of Thy Widowhood
The holidays can be a point of difficulty for many. Old memories, lost relationships, and feelings of longing and sadness can set in. BTR would like to offer hope, in the face of trials this season by sharing some wisdom from the scriptures.
How Friends & Family Can Help Abuse Victims
How can family and friends best support an abuse victim? What is helpful and what is harmful? What happens if you say the wrong thing? How can we build a community of support instead of blame?
Why Authentic Conversation & Open Dialog Are Important For Connection
Are you connected with your loved ones? Do your kids talk to you about their feelings? Does your family set aside regular and routine time to talk and connect without electronics? This is a struggle many families face today. With technology being so widely accessible,...
The Transformative Power Hidden In The Depths Of Betrayal Trauma
What is Post Betrayal Transformation? What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Dr. Debi Silber joins Anne to speak about her research regarding the stages of betrayal trauma and how women can come out of betrayal trauma with transformation.
What Is Clean Browsing And How Can It Help Me?
Clean Browsing is an important part of internet safety. Learn about how to implement clean browsing within your family and how it can protect your children.
Why Filtering Is Not Enough And Accountability Is Vital For Safety
Is filtering enough? Why accountability and education is needed along with filtering.